"But my love for her is not physical; I love her soul”– What are you talking about brother?
Your love is not with her body but with her soul?
Have you seen your own Aatma (soul) yet?
Then how did you manage to see her soul and fall in love with it?
Save yourself if you can.
This relationship has already put a black stain on your White chador of Sikhi.
If you still don’t wake up, you will fall further deep in this trap of Maya.
Wake up and realize that your relationship with Guru Sahib takes precedence over everything else.
"What I meant was that my love for her is purely platonic (without Kaam)”–
Dear brother, this human life was not given to us by Guru Sahib to have Kaamic love or non-Kaamic love. Anything that can possibly break or weaken our relationship with Waheguru, should be avoided.
If she is meant to be for you, then by the work of Waheguru, you will get married to her. When the time for Anand Sanskaar arrives, you will get married.
Bhai Nandlal jee has put forward a very interesting Pankiti:
ਗੋਇਆ ਦੋ ਜਹਾਂ ਰਾ, ਬ-ਜਵੇ ਨਾ ਸਿਤਾਨਦ।
ਮਜਨੂਨੇ ਤੌ, ਕੈ ਆਸ਼ਕੇ ਲੈਲਾ ਬਾਸ਼ਦ।
(Goiya does not place the price of two worlds equal to even a seed of Jau. Why would your Majnoo O Waheguru, become an Aashiq (lover) of a Laila?)
Bhai Sahib is asking a question – why would Waheguru’s Majnoo become infatuated with a Laila?
Laila here represents a girl (or a boy in case of girls).
One heart is capable of having only one lover. Once the heart is taken by one lover, it can’t be taken away by someone else.
One heart, in one lifetime can only truly love one personality.
A Gurmukh’s heart is already taken by Waheguru. There is no chance that a Gurmukh would lose his heart to a worldly lover.
Coming back to Bhai Sahib’s question why would a Waheguru Ji’s Majnoo be Aashiq on a Laila?
The question can be answered with another question –
" Why would someone who is in love with Truth, fall in love with False? "
Bhullan chukka di khima.
Waheguru ji ka khalsa !!
Waheguru ji ki fateh !!
(An Excerpt received from SHABADVICHAR Group.....)